GrooveDirk
Sunday, May 21, 2006
Sunday Update
A quick update before I go to bed Sunday night. Friday Marie came over and had dinner with Kara and helped take care of Ian. Saturday night she came over again, this time with Nancy Kramer and the two of them brought a ton of food (from the excellent Middle Eastern restaurant Semiramis). Ian was especially fussy that night but Kramer and Marie were great in helping calm him down. In the end Marie seemed to have the magic touch (or was it magic chest?) that got Ian to finally go to sleep.
On Sunday we went to a party at Celia's house that Kara's old Depaul co-workers (former and current) had organized. It was a great time with lots of good food (including some great cupcakes from Alliance Bakery) and drink. Most of the people hadn't seen Ian yet, or Kara since the baby was born, so it was good to all get together. We got lots of food, toys, clothes and gift cards (we even needed help carrying all the loot down to the car) and we had a great time. Ian was very well behaved and we had a chance to see what he might be like in 8 more months by watching Janice's son Roosevelt (he just turned 1 year old recently). Thank you very much to everyone who was there and a special thanks to Celia for hosting the party. And whoever made/bought that sweet pecan roll/pastry, thanks to you too, it was/is great.
Okay that's enough for now. I've got to get to sleep. Our new nanny, Monica, starts tomorrow at 9AM. She's just working a few hours, to get the hang of things around the house and to watch Ian while Kara has a business conference call in the early afternoon, but it's the start of what we hope will be a long and happy relationship. She's going to see Ian more on a day to day basis then either of us will....(at least during his waking hours)...
the party at Celia's house


Janice and Roosevelt


Wednesday, May 17, 2006
May Update
Okay another month has just about slipped by and Ian gets bigger and older. He's now 7 weeks old and over 9 lbs (he gained 2 lbs. between his 2 week and 6 week checkups!). The doctor says he's doing great. He gets fussy at night, sometimes having alot of trouble getting to sleep (or getting back to sleep). Sometimes it seems like it's gas, sometimes he's hungry or wet, but sometimes he just seems fussy for no real reason. That's driving Kara crazy (and me as well when I try and get him to go to bed) and when she doesn't get enough sleep she gets unhappy. And by enough I mean her drastically reduced, get up in the middle of the night to feed the baby, try and nap a couple times during the day and usually fail, enough. Enough as in a bare minimum.
Earlier this month my mom, Kevin, and her sister Stephanie, my aunt, came to visit. It was great for Ian to meet his other grandmother (and vice versa) and having the two of them around during the day gave Kara a little help. Kara and I even got to go out on our own for a dinner date (our first since the baby was born) while the two of them watched Ian. Ian got along with them great spending long naps on my mom's and Steph's shoulders. It was really special to see my mom get comfortable with Ian and feel more confident taking care of him. For Stephanie it was a little easier as she's been a grandmother for awhile and has been taking care of babies far more recently than my mother. But my mom's picking up this grandmother stuff fine.
We finally got all the thank you letters mailed out. Any delays are down to me and I apologize. Kara was very organized getting them done, but I needed to look up some addresses. In any case I want to thank everyone who wished us well or sent Ian and us a card or gift. It has meant alot to us (and made me feel guilty for not sending out cards and gifts when many of you had babies--I am sorry for that too). If I don't remember to mention everyone's gift or card in the blog please know that you have our thanks and appreciation.
Now it's time to go to work (which really deserves it's own blog these days).